'Create a Life You Love' Newsletter

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ISSUE #29: 'FINDING MR. or MS. RIGHT (PART 2)'

'Life coaching tips on having MORE in your life. More fun, more love, more peace, more excitement.'

David Wood, PCC
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Contents

1. Announcements/Offers
2. 'Finding Mr. or Ms. Right (Part 2)' (FEATURE)
3. The Personal Touch
4. About the 'Create a Life You Love' Newsletter


1. Announcements/Offers

How was this marriage saved?

I was very moved to receive this success story from the latest reader of ‘The Truth About Women’ ebook: 

"David, I have to say thank you sooooo MUCH!!! My husband and I seemed to be worlds apart until I found your ebook. We were in such bad shape I thought there was no where left to go.

We starting reading 'The Truth About Women' together about a week ago and it was as if the light came on. He actually looked at me and said "I GET IT!” I understand now what you've been trying to tell me all along"

We have our good days and our bad days, but the bad ones are becoming far less and when we need to we just reference your ebook to seek coaching! 

I know this all sounds so stereotypical but it is the truth. Thank you so much. You have truly saved a family from it's own demise!" 

Tracey Iverson
West Chester PA USA
gtkiverson @ aol.com 

Click here for ‘The Truth About Women


2. FEATURE: Finding Mr. or Ms. Right (Part 2)

Last month, I detailed the first simple but powerful method for finding a partner: Finding out who you want, where they hang out, and then hanging out there!

In the second part of this two-part series you will find an even more powerful strategy: Become More Attractive. Do not overlook this strategy.

STRATEGY 2: Become More Attractive

In the past I've helped clients charge out into the dating scene -- but something happens. Something in their life just seems to repel potential partners. Either that, or they unknowingly 'send' people away because they just don't feel ready to really partner someone.

The smart way to find a partner, is to become so attractive that people want to hang out with you.

To improve your own life, so that you're enjoying your own company more, and potential partners want to come and play!

Why are you looking?
Many times when we are looking for a relationship, it is because we don't feel complete on our own. I know I've felt like this often. Are you living such a passionate, joyful life that a partner would simply be a bonus -- or are you coming from a place of deep need? If the latter, it's possible people will pick up on this and either not approach, or you'll only get the needy people!

Working on yourself first is smarter. Here are some ways to create a better life for yourself. What's the worst that can happen -- that you love your life more?(grin).

Enjoying your life...
If you aren't fully loving your life, ask yourself what you can do to make your life more fun. Make lists of things you love to do and start doing them. Do you love to bike ride? Has it been awhile since you've gone out dancing? Call a friend and go to the club. Have you been meaning to sign up for that computer class? Sign up today!

If you are out there enjoying your life, reading your poetry at coffee houses, playing guitar with friends, writing your novel at the café, you are more attractive to other people. Other people will see your joy and want to have fun with you.

As a bonus, if you are having a ball in your life, you won't care as much if you don't get into a relationship right away. Ironically that's when you will find people wanting to join you!

Be the person you want to attract...
This is pretty simple, but how many people on the planet skip this step!?

If you want a non-smoker, stop smoking.

If you want a tidy person who cares about their personal appearance, become tidy, and upgrade your wardrobe and grooming.

If you want someone fit and healthy, eat well and exercise regularly.

If you want someone with passion and integrity, spend your time expressing YOUR passion, and tell the truth even when it costs you something.

This is a great way to polish your life, and become more attractive to your ideal partner.

Take care of yourself
Being between relationships is a fantastic time to learn to take better care of yourself. Schedule in extra time for massages, exercise, spiritual practices, and reading. Pay close attention to how you feel. Check in often during the day and ask yourself, "What do I need at this moment?"

Notice when you start to feel irritated or tired. You might need to take a breather, a nap or a walk. Have fun discovering the best ways for you to work and dig deep to uncover the self-care actions that make you feel great.

Pampering yourself is a great way to feel happier about life - which makes dating you so much more fun!

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For specific help and support in polishing your life and becoming much more attractive, listen online to my live coaching in the CoachingClips.com Personal Growth Library. It's currently selling for only $39. (List of clips here.)

Enjoy,

David


3. The Personal Touch

It's been an exciting month with the launch of '10 Super Coaches Share Their Secrets' to my R&D team. Boy was that more work than I thought! But well worth it.

Now that the brand is starting to roll out (draft and products list here) I'm looking forward to creating a free service for coaches and the public (Discover Your Goals online form) -- and, don't you think a coach training video would be awesome? With four of the best coaches doing on-camera real life coaching.

And have you ever seen a kangaroo in a dentist's chair? Take a look at one of Bronnie's cuter patients!

Love David


4. About the 'Create a Life You Love' Newsletter

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David Wood is a Professional Life Coach, and author of the powerful Free Download: '50 Life Coaching Questions to Take Control of Your Life and Help Your Clients'. He helps coaches, consultants, speakers and trainers to build their businesses via his popular ebook: "10 Super Coaches Share Their Secrets" and his audio ebook: "Getting Your First 50 Clients".

"David Wood is a personal and business coach, and an original founder of the International Coach Academy - a global coach training school"

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